Abby ~ to answer your question ~

Did you read Minuk's book? It is similar to the situation with her friend when she "becomes a woman". They had to stay inside, away from everyone during that time! They just sat all day! Can you imagine the pain? And nothing to do but just sit there and wait it out [img]tongue.gif[/img] And of course everyone would probably know then too, but it's not like they would ever say anything.